LEARN.EARN/LEARN.LEARN
Today my day started with a lot of confusion, about money.
I don't want to rely on money always as it is a big distraction for learning, Earning money is a big task to perform, as sometimes while studying you may urge for making money [like me in high school] , those who make a lot money are a lot happy and can learn anything and perform any tasks they like to [only good] for example learning animation or learning computer programming need a good pc to perform but those with low income or not enough money can't perform their desire and this is what the big challenge, some lose their confidence and even lead to death and some increase their confidence and make a wise decisions to achieve the desires. So i am actually in that situation with not enough money and because of that i am not able to achieve my desires. And i realized the fact that everyone's dream will sure come true if they are always confident in themselves.
I am not going to worry about that i don't have money, i am going to make a wise decision like saving, investing money and etc right now, and concentrate on learning and be confident always that i will achieve my desires and my dream comes true.
I will work hard till i get it.
TODAY is a VERY BIG day for me [LIFE changing DAY].
I am pretty sure that i will make it.
I got all this confidence from three persons surrounded in the environment i live
The first person:
I got to know his story in a podcast, i didn't actually get much confidence by listening the podcast about him, i really got the confidence after visiting him and seeing the way he lives his life.
He used to be smiling always which means he doesn't lose confidence in any situation.
Self discipline is also a lesson i learned from him, Ok then i will tell the story of this guy,
He resides to a poor family where father and mother both works for money, in which father is a serious alcoholic and because of his alcoholism he lost many jobs and so from the birth of this boy his mother used to work as maid in many houses, this has never ended while seeing his mother working all time and not being happy he decided to work too, his first work is working in a hotel as a room boy when he was studying 8th standard and the work of the room boy is to clean the room after the vacation of the customers, wash their dish plates, clean the floors often, carrying luggage of the customers, and even serving the food, etc..
This is the first work he started with and continued this work till he finished his high school.
The next work is being tutor, actually he started being a tutor from class 6 to his friends for free of cost and after the advice of a teacher he started to be tutor for money form class 10 which is his second job.
and he does small works with mom in various houses,
Despite doing all this he studied well and was school first in the 10th grade, and then studying grade 11 and grade 12 was totally free of cost in that same school as the school would teach the first three students in their school for free of cost. So he finished his 11 and 12th grade for free.
The next work he did is while studying grade 11 and grade 12 is distributing newspaper to all the houses in the street in the morning hours.
After the completion of grade 12 he decided to join some colleges and applied for it too and then he listened a radio show in which he was introduced to a foundations which pays the fees for studying for some students who scored high and was under the poverty, so he applied for it too and they called for counselling and asked for the interest of that boy to study in which field and he told mathematics and civil engineering and then they recommended a college and was selected to learn for free, which means the foundation paid all the fee to study in the college, so the boy did UG for free for 4 years and then by the end of 3rd year he decided to do PG in mathematics as he liked mathematics very much and he also decided to do his PG in a big institute in the country.
After he completed his UG there came a lot campus interviews and he applied for it too and then he was selected too, but he rejected all of it, all their family members asked why did you do this as it is not that easy to get a job like he got in the college placements, he replied that he need to work for 10 hours a day , so he dont get enough time to prepare for the entrance exam to get into the institute he taught to do PG.
After this one of his friend called him as a Bouncer in a marriage and he too accepted and went for it to give it a try whether this job is like what he need.
And then he tried it and joined to work as a BOUNCER in some big events.
The job of bouncer is to protect the event to move on smoothly without any problems between peoples and to protect some celebrities who are invited in some events and also protect some politicians while doing campaigning, etc.
He joined this work as the time he work is just two hours in 10 hours as in other time he travel to other place so in that time he used to prepare for the entrance exam, like this he prepared for 6 months and wrote the exam and got seat in that college too, the entrance exam is GATE and the college he choose is IIT which is the number 1 engineering college in india. so he almost made his dream come true, after his 6 months of college the college cancelled his admission because he need to submit his community certificate as he applied for that college as a backward community so he asked for that certificate in the respected office as he was a migrant from other state the member in office told to ask the certificate in that country and then he asked in that country too but they told to ask in that same country where are right now, so this was keep on going, so then he told this problem to the college management for that they replied that they cant help in any way as if some one applies for RTI This college will be under risk so pls leave this college or write the exam again and enter the college, so then he was totally depressed for a while and then he decided to write the exam again this time he wrote the exam under the general category so they dont ask for any community certificate, and he got seat in that same college again in the same department too, this time he got plus 150 marks from the previous mark , and surprisingly he got PG and PHD too and he was very happy about that, before while doing only PG the stipend he got was around 12k but now his stipend is 30k which was enough for his mother as his mother will be very happy for earning just 20k as he was while being a bouncer and now plus 10k which was very exciting for his mother. After the finish 5 years he would become doctorate.
This was one of the inspiring life story of a man.
i would share other two inspiring stories in the next blog post
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